The Hidden Treasures of Marriage

Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. Hebrews 13:4 KJV

Marriage will Never be Perfect

First of all marriage will never be perfect. Both you and your mate will never full filll each other’s complete desires. The Lord told me that. So the number one thing to do is if you are looking for the perfect man or the perfect woman to marry, erase the perfect man, the perfect woman off your list of who to marry. Find a human being not a robot. Even electronic devices are not perfect. Lol

Here is a list of characters to look for in finding a mate:

Is tolerable.
Is responsible.
Loves God.
Goes to God for help and for his Wisdom.
Does not worship the Devil.
Loves people.
Loves life.
Loves you.
Loves children.
Loves himself or herself.
Likes to help your family.
Makes an effort to be with each other family.
Likes to help you.
Likes to help people in need.
Has a Job or helps with income.
Works hard to support you.
Works hard to support his/her family.
Respects you.
Does not act like they own you.
Does not compete with you.
Encourages your desires or goals in life and does not discourage you.
Communication is good but not perfect.
You can enjoy each other as much as friends enjoy each other.
Is willing to forgive and move on.
You should not only love each other but you also must like each other.
Willing to change for the better.
There is no perfect person that will fit your ideal mate for marriage, each person from any race will have their own faults.

I call this article the, The Hidden Treasures of Marriage, because you have to find out what are and where are the treasures of marriage to make it work out. They are found through Jesus’ help.

A Born-Again Christian Marriage

With out God, I would have not still be married. The Lord told me that not many people know the secrets of marriage. The secrets of marriage lies within Jesus perfect love he has for all his creation, especially humans. Solving problems, working out problems, changing, and drawing close together in unity to coexist must be reciprocated between married couples. It is a give and take relationship. It is not just take-take or give-give.

All people require some form of growth, just as you see the life cycle of a baby’s growth. No matter how old a person is or no matter how long you have been married each person still requires more growth. That is why it is important to ask Jesus for his wisdom, guidance, and understanding for your marriage.

Happiness is your Choice

Happiness starts from within your own self. Do not expect your mate to make you happy. You have to make yourself happy so there are two happy people, not just one. If you cannot achieve it alone, try Jesus. He will help you be happy. One of my favorite words in a verse is, “The Joy of the Lord is my Strength.” When you let Jesus transform you and create the person you should be, you will be a happy person. When bad times come into your life, you go to Jesus. He will be there with you and emotionally you do not rely on humans one hundred percent anymore, because Jesus is, was, and is going to be your provider and builder. You then can say to yourself, no one helps me than Jesus. There are good people that will help, but no one understands you more than Jesus. He is the one who formed you before you came into existence on your Birthday. He knows your future. All you have to do is ask, seek and you will find. Jesus is the one that loves you more than any human being on earth, even more than your pet.

Nehemiah 8:10 King James Version
10.) Then he said unto them, Go your way, eat the fat, and drink the sweet, and send portions unto them for whom nothing is prepared: for this day is holy unto our Lord; Neither be ye sorry; for the joy of the LORD is your strength.

The Undefiled Bed in Marriage

Marriage is not all about sex. Sex is a gift for unity to love each other as one. It is not to destroy or control each other. The Bible says sex in marriage is blessed. It is important to honor sex in marriage, This also requires a lot of knowledge to make it work. Jesus will also help you in this area. Marriage is important to Jesus so go ahead ask him for his help especially if you want to give up on your marriage.

Hebrew 13:4 King James Version
4.) Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.

Sex in a Christian Marriage in the Presence of Jesus

In my vision a husband and wife together looks like this to Jesus. While a husband, a man and a wife, the women, embraces his wife, she is protected. She is immediately fully armed with an armor that protects: her womanhood, as a women/child of God, her marriage, and as a wife. As her husband loves her, she is dressed for battle. The tempter and destroyer, Satan leaves the wife alone and chases someone else instead of the wife. The wife is pleasantly happy being loved and embraced by her husband. In obedience to the Lord she is fully armed against the attacks of the tempter and destroyer.

Husbands-Men

1 Peter 3:7 King James Version
7.) Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.

Proverbs 18:22 King James Version
22.) Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD.

Wives-All Females and Husbands-All Males

James 4:7 King James Version
7.) Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.

Samuel 15:22. King James Version
22.) And Samuel said, Hath the LORD as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices, as in obeying the voice of the LORD? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to hearken than the fat of rams.